the practice of journaling
how to start when you keep not starting
starting a journaling habit is a calibration problem, not a discipline problem. three failure modes from Fogg, Wood and Lally, with three small fixes.
the practice of journaling
starting a journaling habit is a calibration problem, not a discipline problem. three failure modes from Fogg, Wood and Lally, with three small fixes.
You decide to start journaling. You stop within a week. You decide again. You stop again. The reflex is to call this a discipline problem. It is almost never a discipline problem. It is a calibration problem.
A calibration diagnosis treats non-starting as evidence that one of three settings is off. The entry is too big. The cue is unstable. The medium is too precious. Each has a small fix and a citation. Apply the one that fits, and try again.
Most journaling advice asks for five minutes and three prompts. That is the published default, not the floor. The worth naming, but here the simpler problem is the dose. B.J. Fogg's lever in Tiny Habits is to shrink the behaviour until ability beats the need for motivation. [1]
Make the behavior so tiny that you don't need much motivation.
The fix is to write one sentence. Not your best sentence. Any sentence. A noun and a verb that could only have happened today. If one sentence still feels heavy, write one word. The is the operational form of this lever.
The second failure mode is invisible. You meant to write sometime in the evening. Sometime in the evening is not a cue. Wood and Rünger's 2016 review of habit psychology lands on the spine of the field: habits are activated by recurring context cues, not by re-decided motivation. [3] A fuzzy cue gets out-competed by whatever else the evening contains.
The fix is to name the cue precisely. The cue should be a moment that already happens, every day, without you. Lally's found that missing a single day did not derail habit formation, and that the behaviour reached automaticity, in a stable context, after a median of sixty-six days.
median days to automaticity, in a stable context
66
lally 2010
The number is a permission. You have weeks. You do not have to feel it working yet.
The third mode is the one nobody admits to. The notebook is leather. The pen is heavy. The first page is intimidating. A precious medium raises the stakes of every entry above what the practice can carry, and so the practice does not start.
The fix is the smallest possible trade-down. A note app. A ten-second log. A piece of paper that is allowed to be ugly. The practice is the record, not the artefact. Calibrate down until starting costs nothing, and the practice arrives on its own.